+*+*~Who Are We To Say "NO" ?~*+*+

Sebelum saya menulis secara serius...lagi 7 hari my confinement will end!! Yippiee!! And today I was left with Aimar and his Tokwan again, and skarang ni Aimar tengah tido so ada chancelah mama dia update blog..ngee :P

Actually this matter is playing inside my head since this morning. Sometimes we love to say "NO" to people without considering whether that thing that we avoid people from doing is suitable or not to them. It is because we evaluate it base on US, ourself on our own circumstances.

Contohnya, kita bagitau someone, hey...jangan makan cendawan, nanti gatal. Maybe that fella memang ada allergic cendawan so that statement is relevant to him/her. Tapi let say that fella adalah bebas allergic dan boleh-makan-apa-saja-termasuk-batu-dan-kayu, so definitely that statement is not relevant to them. Sebagai seorang bekas jurutera, for me if you want to make that statement make sure you have the evidence, statistic data perhaps. So, kalau nak make sure yang your statement is relevant start it with data collection, or maybe simple observation.

Tapi masalah yang paling besar is orang kita selalu say "NO" base on their own experience. Disebabkan dia "tidak boleh" so orang lain pun harus "tidak boleh" juga. Contohnya, si A "tidak boleh" makan nasi sebab kalau makan nasi dia akan jadi gemuk, so dia akan bagitau kat B, jangan makan nasi sebab nanti dia akan jadi gemuk juga. No, actually it should not be like that. You must know that fella metabolic rate first because people is unique and different, they have their own body capability. Sama jugalah dengan perkara-perkara lain, physically and emotionally, each person has their own ability and capability so for me kita tak berhak say "NO" to them base on our own experience.

Tapi, say "NO" to dadah and rokok is essential lah..:) (Ending yang tah hape-hape sebab budak kecik tu dah start merengek)